How to make your toddler read and write?

If you’re like me you were probably a little alarmed by this question!
I have a picture of a little two year old, sitting in front of a huge pile of books and paper, with a severe mom shaking their finger at them.


In my experience its very difficult to “make” a toddler do anything. This is the age of “NO!” after all.

Of course, we don’t “make”, we encourage, persuade, coax and motivate. Making any task a fun activity or game young kids can play is a great way to coach a toddler.

Here are some activities that may help in encouraging your pre-schooler to read and write.

“As Simple as ABC”

    For children ages 2 to 6

Sharing the alphabet with your child helps her begin to recognize the shapes of letters and to link them with the sounds of spoken language. She will soon learn the difference between individual letters—what they look like and what they sound like.

What You Need

  •     Alphabet book
  •     ABC magnets
  •     Paper, pencils, crayons, markers
  •     Glue and safety scissors

What to Do
The first activities in the list below work well with younger children. As your child grows older, the later activities let her do more. But keep doing the first ones as long as she enjoys them.

  •     With your toddler sitting with you, print the letters of her name on paper and say each letter as you write it. Make a name sign for her room or other special place. Have her decorate the sign by pasting stickers or drawing on it.


  •     Teach your child “The Alphabet Song” and play games with her using the alphabet. Some alphabet books have songs and games that you can learn together.


  •     Look for educational videos, DVDs, CDs, and TV shows such as “Between the Lions” that feature letter-learning activities for young children. Watch such programs with your child and join in with her on the rhymes and songs.


  •     Place alphabet magnets on your refrigerator or on another smooth, safe metal surface. Ask your child to name the letters she plays with and to say the words she may be trying to spell.


  • Wherever you are with your child, point out individual letters in signs, billboards, posters, food containers, books, and magazines. When she is 3 to 4 years old, ask her to begin finding and naming some letters.


  • When your child is between ages 3 and 4, encourage her to spell and write her name. For many children, their names are the first words they write. At first, your child may use just one or two letters for her name (for example, Emily, nicknamed Em, uses the letter M).


  •     Make an alphabet book with your kindergartner. Have her draw pictures (you can help). You can also cut pictures from magazines or use photos. Paste each picture in the book. Help your child to write next to the picture the letter that stands for the object or person in the picture (for example, B for bird, M for milk, and so on).

When you show your child letters and words over and over again, she will identify and use them more easily when learning to read and write.

She will be eager to learn when the letters and words are connected to things that are part of her life.


I hope that  you now have a lot of ideas on how to encourage your child with their reading and writing.

We have some excellent resources for helping kids with their ABC’s in Games Kids can Play. Do please check them out.